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2024-12-30 07:18 pm
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Stories! Making the world a better place

It's in the blood by Susan Kaye Quinn. An ultimately hopeful story about one way we could turn the corner and get out of this doom spiral.

Seven Commentaries on an Imperfect Land by Ruthanna Emrys, via [personal profile] forestofglory. I remembered linking to this before in 2020 but didn't realize I first read it in 2014!

The Lives of Lan Wangji by [archiveofourown.org profile] azurewaxwing, via [personal profile] forestofglory. It's a crossover between The Lives of Christopher Chant by Dianna Wynne Jones, and The Untamed. I'm not familiar with either one, but I thoroughly enjoyed the story.

At the Stopping Place by Grace Seybold, via [personal profile] mrissa's end of year short story list. A folk tale pattern from a different angle.

The Weight of Your Own Ashes by Carlie St. George, also via [personal profile] mrissa's list.
“Sure,” Gray says. “It’s strange. So? Who gives a shit? Lots of things are strange for a while, and then we get used to them—or else we stay limited and narrow and fucking sad.”


And a bonus link, related in that it's needed for a better world, You can't build love on lies by Girl on the Net. Note: the overall site is not at all work-safe, although the article is not related to sex work.
It’s not merely that the hurt from your lie will grow the longer it remains unsaid, it’s that all the love you built will collapse when it’s outed as well. The connection you’re maintaining with the person you’re lying to right now is constructed on shifting sand. Everything you pour into that relationship – whether romantic or friendly or collegial or whatever – is so much wasted bullshit. The love, care, friendship, compassion, understanding, affection and respect that person might feel for you… it’s all based on a lie! A false belief about who you are. If you are lying to your loved ones, then the love they give you back is just as fake as you are.


And because music makes everything better, [personal profile] forestofglory also recced "Sing for the Coming of the Longest Night" which is a line out of the beautiful Halsway Carol (video cued to start of singing) (lyrics).
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2024-12-29 04:29 pm
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Links: Tech related

I've had some of these open in tabs for quite a while

How a 27-year-old busted the myth of Bitcoin’s anonymity by Andy Greenberg.
All of it began when a young, puzzle-loving mathematician named Sarah Meiklejohn started to pull out traceable patterns in the apparent noise of Bitcoin’s blockchain.. This excerpt from Tracers in the Dark reveals how Meiklejohn came to the discoveries that would launch that new era of crypto criminal justice.

Substack partners with protofascists by Marisa Kabas. Putting this here for the next time someone asks me why Substack is a problematic newsletter host.

Leaders and Followers


Followership by Jason Wong.
Everyone likes to talk about leadership—we are culturally conditioned to view success as a progression through leadership positions—but there is far less attention paid to being a good follower.

On Rake Collections and Software Engineering by Diego Elio Pettenò.
My understanding of Matthew’s metaphor is that senior developers (or senior software engineers, or senior systems engineers, and so on) are at the same time complaining that their coworkers are making mistakes (“stepping onto rakes”, also sometimes phrased as “stepping into traps”), while at the same time making their environment harder to navigate (“spreading more rakes”, also “setting up traps”).

Thoughts on "Being a Senior Engineer" by Adam Keys. A response to On Being a Senior Engineer by John Allspaw, about the responsibilities and abilities of a mature engineer.

Salaries


What is your labor worth? Tech compensation in 2021 by Jacob Kaplan-Moss. The tech job market is much tougher in 2024 than 2021, but there's still good advice here about how to get a sense of the market.

How to Ask For a Raise by Alison Green.
If you’re like a lot of people, you might have gone your entire career without ever asking for a raise. It’s surprisingly common for workers, particularly women, to wait for their employer to dole out raises rather than proactively requesting one.

Technical


On Long Term Software Development by Bert Hubert. Recommendations for long-term software development, caring (enough) about the future.

A mastodon thread on suggestions for email newsletter providers. I investigated several of these when I accidentally broke my phpList/Mailgun setup recently. I ended up figuring out how to fix my setup rather than giving my list to a third party. (I incautiously upgraded the Mailgun plugin in phpList, and it stopped working. I figured out how to downgrade it again and was back in business.)

Go structs are copied on assignment (and other things about Go I'd missed) by Julia Evans

Exploring Javascript book by Dr. Axel Rauschmayer. I keep thinking I should learn Javascript, but so far I've just had to do a few things around the edges.

The Myth of the Modular Monolith (video tech talk) by Eileen Uchitelle.
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2024-12-28 03:57 pm
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Fun jigsaw puzzle, Reader's Paradise

This jigsaw puzzle aligns with the interests of a lot of folks here. Reader's Paradise by Aimee Stewart from White Mountain Puzzles. It's a painting of a very crowded bookshop, which means every inch of the puzzle is covered by varying colors, textures, and fonts. No large swaths of bland blue sky that have to be matched solely by puzzle piece shape here. The level of detail is amazing for old book covers and posters in various styles, which Aimee Stewart not only created in loving detail, but most of them are painted at an angle!

There are more bonus living beings than I expected in a bookshop as well, given that there are no visible humans.

I did it without referring to the cover, and the hardest part was getting the border pieces in the right order. After that I could collect pieces that had text, or that matched by color, and start figuring out what went where. It was fun to watch different parts of the scene emerge.

Once it was done, I got curious about the piece count, since this was a regular-cut puzzle with even rows and columns. The rectangle is 37 pieces x 27, which multiplies out to 999. Either 1000 pieces is rounded up, or ... yup, there it is, one of the pieces is two pieces linked together to make an even 1000. My eye went right to it, so the anomaly must have been noticeable even though I didn't think about it consciously when I was putting the pieces in place.

I picked it up while walking in the neighborhood a few months ago, where someone had put it outside when they were done with it. I'll pass it along to a friend, or put it outside in turn (when the weather is drier).
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2024-12-26 11:10 pm
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Links: How we tell (marginalized) stories

Who Is Baba Yaga? by Kris Spisak. "Trickster, mentor, probable goddess—Slavic folklore’s most famous villain is so much more than a witch." Excerpted and adapted from Becoming Baba Yaga: Trickster, Feminist, and Witch of the Woods.

The Ghost of Workshops Past: How Communism, Conservatism, and the Cold War Still Mold Our Paths Into SFF Writing by S.L. Huang.
As part of tracing out why these types of workshops can be so detrimental to minority writers, both authors delved into the history of writing workshops. And both argued that the traditional workshop in which the author is enforced to silence will not only suppress minority voices—but that its domination across education happened not by accident, but by design.


We Are the Mountain: A Look at the Inactive Protagonist by Vida Cruz.
Now let’s flip the script. Let me take you through the anatomy of characters who are commonly labelled “inactive protagonist.”

They are marginalized in some way, via race or class or gender or sex or ability. They will most certainly have suffered some kind of trauma (or three, or more), whether physical, emotional, psychological, or sexual. These two things have inevitably and inextricably colored not only how they perceive and navigate the world they live in, but how gods, natural or supernatural phenomena, technology, society, or other people react to them.
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2024-12-23 09:29 pm
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Links: medical, off the beaten path

Seem like peanut allergies were once rare and now everyone has them?, excerpt from "Blind Spots: When Medicine Gets It Wrong, and What It Means For Our Health" by Marty Makary, MD. (My first response to the title is that yeah, sometimes it's medicine, but often it's journalism taking one small study and blowing it out of proportion.)
Since his training with Buckley, Combs has consistently instructed parents to introduce a touch of peanut butter (mixed with water to avoid a choking risk) as soon as a child is able to eat it. To this day, the thousands of children in East Tennessee lucky enough to have Combs as their pediatrician do not have peanut allergies.


Migraine molecules may drive endometriosis pain. Existing drugs might help. by Emily Cooke as attested by [personal profile] threemeninaboat. "[A] real endometriosis treatment had be found, in mice, with an already FDA approved migraine medication, Nurtec. Nurtec has almost no side effects and it REALLY works on migraines. Not only is endometriosis pain controlled but IT SHRINKS THE LESIONS."

Autistic women more likely to suffer severe menopause yet struggle to access care by Aasma Day. "Autistic people may experience more severe menopause symptoms, through an increase in difficulties associated with both their autism and the menopause combined."

Covid resources


Unofficial Pluslife FAQ (EN) "Pluslife is a commercial, molecular LAMP assay for the detection of SARS-CoV-2 RNA. It is similar to (but much cheaper than) devices like Lucira, Metrix or 3EO, which are only available on the US market." Interesting info from Germany on more accurate Covid testing at home. The footer says: Send a mail to "hi [ät] virus.sucks" for questions and feedback. For the Altruan discount, email "discount [ät] virus.sucks" instead.

MaskBloc.org, free masks for all. I found a Bay Area East Bay entry, but I'm not sure it's still in operation. Searching on a state is more successful than on a city to find local resources.
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2024-12-19 09:35 pm
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Story! Witches of Athens

The Witches of Athens by Lara Elena Donnelly. This didn't go at all the direction I expected, and left me smiling.

Also, check out this Black-Crowned Night Heron wall decal! That's Oakland's official bird right there. I am tempted. Coyote Brush Studios has other realistic-looking bird decals, stickers, and other fun California-native merch.

Both recs via [personal profile] forestofglory.

From the sidebar at Strange Horizons, I got drawn into a powerful story, Exit Interview, by K.W. Onley.
Across the train tracks from BWI station, a portal shimmered in the shade of a patch of tall trees. From her seat on a northbound train taking on passengers, Dottie watched a woman slip a note out of her pocket, place it under a rock, strip off her work uniform, then walk naked, smiling, into the portal.
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2024-12-17 03:10 pm
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Link: rebuttal re: election being rigged

Since I posted about my belief that the election was stolen, I'll also post this rebuttal by Robert B. Hubbell, Nov 21, 2024.

There are so many ways the Republicans overtly tried to prevent a free and fair election. I'm sure there were covert ways too. Not to mention all the Russian bots we know about, and there's probably more there that we don't know about.

I still don't want to host a debate about it, so I'll still leave comments off.
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2024-12-16 09:02 pm
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Links: A couple of writing tools

Ellipsus, collaborative alternative to Google docs
[personal profile] sineala wrote up a recommendation for Ellipsus, a free online collaborative editor that is staunchly anti-AI. "Barring significant regulatory changes, we will never weave generative AI into Ellipsus."

That gives them points in my book, but the flashy-flashy site and need to create an account don't draw me in at the moment. I like to do my writing on my local machine. I'm posting this so that I can find it later if I want.

And also, apparently it's great for collaborating and getting beta feedback on fanfic (and other writing), so I'm posting it in case anyone here is interested in that. Read [personal profile] sineala's post for more about that.

Setting up vim for writing
Vim (vi improved) is the modern successor to vi (visual) which was the full-screen successor to ex (extended), the original one-line-at-a-time editor on Unix. Vi was released in 1976, and vim was released in 1991. Vi and vim are modal editors, so you can be in edit mode or command mode, and you can also type a ':' in command mode which puts you in line mode at the bottom of the screen, where you can still use ex commands. They are usually used by programmers, or as a fallback when other editors aren't available on Unix.

I learned vi first, and then emacs (which has control characters instead of modes) and then much later VSCode. I occasionally dip into vi when I'm editing a file in the terminal, or editing a git commit message. When I'm thinking very hard about coding, I revert to typing vi commands, even though I'm in VSCode instead.

All that to say, it's surprising to see someone set up vim for writing instead of coding.

This mastodon post from Mx. Aria Stewart says:
I just set vim up for editing prose and uh

... y'all remember spell checking that uses an actual dictionary? That doesn't gaslight you about whether a word is in a dictionary or not, it just tells you?

For what it's worth, Configuring Vim as a Writing Tool by Theena is a decent hint at things that are useful for making vim writerly
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2024-12-13 06:13 pm
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Build your own computer

I have a friend who is building their own computer, as guided by the website Logical Increments, which has a beautiful colorful chart of compatible parts to build many different levels of computers, from Destitute ($279) through Modest up to Superb and all the way to Extremist and Monstrous ($3786). (I thought I posted this link before, but didn't find it in a search.)

When I was a kid, my dad built a stereo receiver from a HeathKit, and sometimes he let me bring the solder to the tip of the solder gun as he held it. I loved watching the shiny solder form a new sealed connection around the wires. I wanted to get a HeathKit computer and build it, but he never agreed. As I look back, it might have been far too complex a project for me, but it would have been cool once I was done.

These days, I'm happy with my sealed MacBook Pro and have no desire to put my own set of parts together, much less solder the wires myself, but I admire my friend for doing it. They don't even have a technical background, but they're solidly good at figuring things out and making them work.
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2024-12-11 09:37 pm
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Links: Communication at work

Some excellent advice about communicating at work, or wherever you happen to need to get things done with people you didn't choose and don't necessarily like.

Comment from hildi at Ask A Manager (2013)
I think this just speaks to the point about how there are relationship-focused people and task-focused people. In my classes I give everyone the following passionate speech: “The relationship focused folks need to work on being less sensitive. If you know you’re dealing with a task focused individual and they say something that feels kind of rude, let it go. They are probably not focused on the relationship right now. They are focused on what’s important to them and that’s the task. They can work with you regardless of whether they like you or not.

“On the other hand, you task-focused folks: you need to understand that when you’re dealing with relationship focused people that it is critical for them that they don’t feel the relationship is in jeopardy when dealing with you. They mistake your “get to the point” with a blow to the relationship, you need to be aware of that and find a softer way to say the same thing. ”


Interview with an incredibly diplomatic person … or how to agreeably disagree at Ask a Manager. An interview with hildi, containing more great advice.

Clear is Kind, Unclear is Unkind by Brene Brown.
Feeding people half-truths or bullshit to make them feel better (which is almost always about making ourselves feel more comfortable) is unkind.

Not getting clear with a colleague about your expectations because it feels too hard, yet holding them accountable or blaming them for not delivering is unkind.

Talking about people rather than to them is unkind.


The SCARF model of social threat & reward, originally by David Rock.
[W]e have strong drives to seek out five key things: status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness and fairness.
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2024-12-10 04:09 pm
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Video link: How shelter dogs respond to being kissed

Kissing the dogs at the rescue center to see their reactions! TikTok video, linked via Mastodon. A woman sitting cross-legged in the grass, warmly kissing several different dogs, and then pausing to see how they react.

Spoiler: The dogs just melt. Makes me cry.
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2024-12-09 08:06 pm
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DW news, and thank you all

I'm sure everyone has seen this by now, but just in case: 2024 Holiday Points Bonus, plus: PRICES WILL INCREASE in 2025 by [staff profile] denise. I just got my usual year of paid time, plus an extra year because why not.

I treasure this little corner of the internet, and all of you who write and read and comment. This shining thread through the last 15 years has given me a place to find out what I thought as I wrote, and get support, and learn new things, and share links, and happen across a tarot deck and a lamp and many books I never would have known about.

Thank you all for being here. I treasure my connections with you.
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2024-12-03 05:43 am
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Link: Board book recs

I enjoyed this list of board books by Betsy Bird, in case anyone is shopping for little ones. It specifically calls out diversity of skin color and disability.
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2024-11-28 07:00 pm
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Links: Surviving together

It is Time For Our Cockroach Era by Geraldine DeRuiter, November 9, 2024.
It is time to be in cockroach mode. To keep going, by whatever means possible. When someone tries to stamp you out, avoid them with a swiftness and a scurry that will haunt their dreams. [...] For some of us, survival may be easier. If you fall into that privileged group, consider using your energy to remind others that they are precious, and beautiful, and so, so loved. That if they left the earth, grief would drown those of us left scurrying across the wreckage without them.


Sen. Elizabeth Warren: Here's the Plan to Fight Back by Sen. Elizabeth Warren, November 7, 2024.
To everyone who feels like their heart has been ripped out of their chest, I feel the same. To everyone who is afraid of what happens next, I share your fears. But what we do next is important, and I need you in this fight with me.


Democracy2025
We are the united legal frontline in the fight for people and our democracy. We will fight for people, freedom, and our democracy against any odds. We know the playbook, and we’re ready to fight back.


We Shine for Each Other by T. Thorn Coyle, November 9, 2024.
The world can feel scary, but no matter what happens, I’m glad you are in it. And if it helps, I wrote a long essay about Mutual Aid and how we can show up for each other—especially the most vulnerable among us—right now and always.


On Organizing by Rabbi Danya Ruttenberg, November 11, 2024.
We must deepen our relationships of trust and care across lines of difference, across coalitions, across communities. That's the foundation upon which everything else resides.


Don’t Just Do Nothing: 20 Things You Can Do To Counter Fascism by Anonymous, November 21, 2024.
As diasporic rebels, our Jewishness teaches us to rely on solidarity beyond all borders. Our teachings compel us to lean on the community of others to live lives worth living, whether we are mourning or celebrating, or grappling time and again with what liberation should and could look like. [...] 2. Make people soup and do not stop inviting them over for soup! Be a reason for living.


Feeding the Revolution: Crip love, mutual aid, and pots of immune-boosting soup on the stoop by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha, November 15, 2023.
“Oh, you want to know how you can support disability justice? MAKE SOMEONE A POT OF SOUP!” my friend William Maria Rain, a true disability justice OG, yelled at the audience at a disability justice panel at the D Center at the University of Washington, circa 2014 or so. Someone had probably been wringing their hands during the Q&A and timidly asking, “Um, what’s a good way to help the disabled community?” William made the answer very plain: You help disabled people by making sure we’re not dying of starvation in our apartments.


And a different set of encouraging links from [personal profile] muccamukk.
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2024-11-22 10:18 pm
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Piano books, and a video

I mentioned a while back that I've been playing piano again. I'm still at it, practicing for 10-15 minutes every day or every other day.

The book I'm learning from is Mastering Music Level 1A, Versatile Piano Studies for Older Beginners by Janet Vogt. It's well put together to gradually teach concepts with musically interesting pieces. I'm working on the last few pieces in that one, and I have 1B waiting for when I'm ready. I'm moving through it slowly, trying to learn the physical skills to hit the right keys, make the volume gradually get louder or softer, slur notes together, and play chords. Not to mention reading the music.

I had "What Every Pianist Needs to Know About the Body" by Thomas Mark et. al. for years, but never read it. Partly because the similar book for singers was so dense and technical. I sold it to Powells when I moved. But I got a copy recently via interlibrary loan, and it turns out to be very readable and useful. I might re-buy a copy to have it for reference. I reviewed it at more length.

What Every Pianist Needs to Know About the Body video also by Thomas Mark. This two hour video is a great companion to the book. I also had a copy of this and never watched it, so I was delighted to find the whole thing on the Internet Archive. Highly recommended if you're interested in good body mechanics.
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2024-11-22 09:57 pm
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Links: Told you it was rigged

I'm going to post this. And I'm going to leave comments off. Because I don't want to argue about it and I don't want to hear about how it's not valid.

I know it probably (heartbreakingly) won't make any difference to what happens out in the world. But it makes a difference to how I see the world.

Via BronMason.
Links to two letters calling for a recount )
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2024-11-18 09:34 pm
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Links: The wider world

Students ride the rails in this course to learn about sustainability and tourism by Mark Alan Rhodes II, Assistant Professor of Geography, Michigan Technological University.
What does the course explore?
Over the course of three weeks, students visit six locations, with overnight train rides between each ranging from 16-24 hours. The days are broken up into lessons on observing landscape and land use, sustainable tourism and urban deindustrialization, with at least an hour of class time on each train ride.


Dendrochronology by Robert Moor.
I had read enough forest ecology to know that this chaotic arrangement of forms—a density and diversity of shapes, sizes, and shades that no painter would ever even attempt to capture—belied a deeper order. I was looking not at a site of decay, but of growth—the luxuriant, slow accumulation of something at once resilient and frighteningly fragile.


The Wonder Waller by Kristie De Garis.
‘Fully immersed in my conversation with the land, I began to notice the drystone, and running my hands over the rough, Perthshire fieldstone walls, I felt that same quietude I’d known as a child.’


Millan Millan and the Mystery of the Missing Mediterranean Storms by Rob Lewis.
Suddenly, parts of the climate you couldn’t see before appear. In addition to the atmosphere, you now see the landscapes around you and the soil beneath your feet, not as helpless victims, but as active drivers of this thing we call climate. Not only that, but you see that at one point, not too long ago, science looked at the climate in just such a manner.


The weeds are winning by Douglas Main.
Herbicide resistance is a predictable ­outcome of evolution, explains Patrick Tranel, a leader in the field of molecular weed science at the University of Illinois, whose lab is a few miles from the South Farm. “When you try to kill something, what does it do? It tries to not be killed,” Tranel says.


The joy of clutter by Matt Alt. "The world sees Japan as a paragon of minimalism. But its hidden clutter culture shows that ‘more’ can be as magical as ‘less’." With joyfully cluttered photographs.

The First Virtual Meeting Was in 1916 by Allison Marsh. "The amazing feat linked up 5,100 engineers from Atlanta to San Francisco"
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2024-11-17 08:25 pm
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Romanian language geekery

We're singing a Romanian song Sculați gazde nu dormiți in Balkan choir, so I sent out some pronunciation links. Posting them here so I can find them again in the future, and maybe folks here are interested too.

Here's a quick reference for Romanian pronunciation: socalfolkdance.org/resources/romanian.htm

And a more detailed reference on the language, including an alphabet pronunciation video: omniglot.com/writing/romanian.htm

I got curious and looked up the diacriticals. This curved diacritical ă is called a breve, pronounced "breev" or "brehv." This one with the point up â is a circumflex, and this one with the point down ǎ is a haček "hachek" (not used in Romanian, included for comparison). Source: altcodeunicode.com/alt-codes-letter-a-with-accents/

From the omniglot page in the Romanian pronunciation notes section, Romanian is one of the few languages that uses the letters s and t with a comma below (ș, ț). Using a cedilla instead (ş, ţ) is considered incorrect by the Romanian Academy.
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2024-11-16 06:10 pm

Goodbye to a choir mate, Susan Fetcho

I've been singing with a Balkan community choir for the last couple of years. Sadly, one of the founding singers died of cancer a few weeks ago. At our recent end-of-session concert, we sang Heyamoli, one of her favorite songs, in her honor.

Her memorial service was yesterday over in Marin. I wasn't going to go, since it was during the work day and I'd have to find a ride. But they invited the choir to sing Heyamoli for her, and I wanted to support the effort, so I asked for 4 hours of bereavement leave at work, and asked choir members for a ride.

I'm glad I went! The memorial was at beautiful Fernwood Cemetery, and was filled with music, poetry, and heartfelt remembrances. Remembering Susan Fetcho at Radix Magazine has some of the same songs and stories.

I'm proud that I set aside time to go, and I'm proud of performing. It's not something that comes easily for me, although I didn't feel as much anticipatory panic as I have in the past. It's a song I've sung a lot, so instead of looking at the sheet music, I looked out at the chapel full of people gathered to grieve and sing and celebrate Susan's life, and sang for them.

Music links )
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2024-11-13 09:59 pm
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Links: Three dw signal boosts

Mnemonic Traditions and Listening from [personal profile] asakiyume.
Listening means being alive, staying alive, and keeping the ecosystems to which one belongs alive as well. Listening is caring. Not listening brings war: that is, a type of destructive encounter, a form of non-co-existence. We listen with our entire bodies, not just our ears ... Our bodies are part of and an extension of the Earth. If we allow them to become sensing instruments for dreaming and conversation, the cosmic sense of life would not be so threatened. --Natalia Brizuela


Linkpost with references and archives from [personal profile] armaina. "[C]harming and lovingly crafted niche info websites."

Emojis popup from [personal profile] starwatcher.
On Windows: Hold down the Windows key plus the period, and you get a popup of emojis to select. If you don't see what you want, type the word, and emojis that match that word will be displayed.
On Mac: Function-E or Command-Control-Spacebar 😍😀 (Just tried them both, they both work for me!)