Reluctantly learned in 2020
Dec. 27th, 2020 07:41 pmIn 2020 I learned to be even more self-contained than I was before.
It feels like this year has been a culmination of all the skills I've gathered and the home I've made for myself, and at the same time it has been exactly what I was trying to get away from - feeling alone and disconnected. I'm grateful for the ways I have stayed connected with people, including here on DW. I'm very grateful for my warm fluffy affectionate cat. And I hope that someday I will have more of the in-person connections I always wanted.
What have you learned this year? What will be useful to you going forward?
- Buying food in bulk, including visiting the farmers market every 2-3 weeks instead of every week.
- Growing more food in the garden. Turns out that adding compost occasionally and watering every day helps a lot!
- Ordering non-food items online. New for 2020: being charged immediately, and then having delivery delays of weeks or months, but eventually everything arrives (so far).
- Seeing clients online instead of in person.
- Running dance groups online instead of in person.
- Sewing masks. I just found out about rotary cutters and cutting mats!
- Grabbing a mask every time I leave the house (or going back for it).
- Looking ahead and dodging into the street to avoid crossing paths with other pedestrians. Nodding to them if they dodge into the street first.
- Spending even more time alone and more or less keeping my emotional balance.
It feels like this year has been a culmination of all the skills I've gathered and the home I've made for myself, and at the same time it has been exactly what I was trying to get away from - feeling alone and disconnected. I'm grateful for the ways I have stayed connected with people, including here on DW. I'm very grateful for my warm fluffy affectionate cat. And I hope that someday I will have more of the in-person connections I always wanted.
What have you learned this year? What will be useful to you going forward?