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This makes me smile.

The five neurodivergent love languages by Amythest, [twitter.com profile] neurowonderful .

The five neurodivergent love languages: infodumping, parallel play, support swapping, Please Crush My Soul Back Into My Body, and "I found this cool rock/button/leaf/etc and thought you would like it"

Cause some have been asking:

Infodumping: talking about an interest or passion of yours and thus sharing information, usually in detail and at length

Parallel play: some people call this being alone together, as in when you're both reading your own books in the same room, or one person is doing a puzzle while another plays a video game, etc. Just existing together counts too.

Support swapping: I don't know if this is a widely used term. I used it to mean when ND people accomodate or support each other, like if I remind a friend hydrate and they ask me if I've taken my meds, or a friend helps me write an email and later I help them with homework, etc

Please Crush My Soul Back Into My Body: deep pressure input good!! Provides proprioceptive input and can soothe body stress responses (always get consent)

I found this cool rock/button/leaf etc and thought you would like it: unconventional gift giving, sharing things that are valuable or interesting to you as a sign of affection, OR giving someone a thing you know they are interested in (sure, memes count)

And of course this is just a funny tweet, not a true guide, and there are an infinite number of ways to give and receive love. Feel free to add on your personal neurodivergent love languages :)

It's so nice to hear about all these expressions of ND love (platonic included) <3

I can't keep up with this tweet anymore, so I'm sorry if I didn't reply to you. You're valid as hell, so go forth and gift rocks and/or memes, be alone together, get squished, and just do you


I found this cool link and thought you might like it! <3

Date: 2021-05-29 11:56 pm (UTC)
minoanmiss: Maiden holding a quince (Quince Maiden)
From: [personal profile] minoanmiss
This is a delight.

Date: 2021-05-30 01:36 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] elainegrey
Thank you!

Date: 2021-05-30 06:01 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] boxofdelights
I do like it! Thank you!

Date: 2021-05-30 08:00 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gingicat
<3

Date: 2021-05-30 05:29 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] runpunkrun

<3

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