Cranio-Rectal Inversion
Dec. 15th, 2018 02:39 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
soniaThe subject line is pseudo-medical language for what a friend calls HUA Syndrome: Head Up Ass.
I've had several friendships where the most neutral thing I could say is, well, they have their head up their ass. They can't see anything but their own shit, and they're definitely not seeing me at all.
The insight I had about that is that I needed to get *my* head out of their ass, quit trying to figure out what was going on with them, and attend to my own business.
I shared the insight with someone in a similar situation recently and they found it useful, so now you have it, too. Also maybe I'll run across this post again in the future when I need a reminder!
I've had several friendships where the most neutral thing I could say is, well, they have their head up their ass. They can't see anything but their own shit, and they're definitely not seeing me at all.
The insight I had about that is that I needed to get *my* head out of their ass, quit trying to figure out what was going on with them, and attend to my own business.
I shared the insight with someone in a similar situation recently and they found it useful, so now you have it, too. Also maybe I'll run across this post again in the future when I need a reminder!
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Date: 2018-12-16 01:14 am (UTC)